When I hope for my husband to love me according to my expectations, I’ll be lead to focus on what I’m getting instead of what I’m giving.
Misplaced expectations sets us on a cycle of trying to take from one another and traps us in bondage. Jesus demonstrated love so we would give love to one another.
I give you a new commandment: that you should love one another. Just as I have loved you, so you too should love one another.-John 13:34